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February Reviews: ONE LOVE

February Newsletter: books & music & movies & Kevin McQuinn talks about networking
February Reviews: ONE LOVE
Audrey Hepburn in a publicity photo.

February Reviews: some lighter stuff to get us through winter.

THEN: Some of my times with the Bad Ray, as he called his unrecovered drinking self, are described in this brilliant biography. Carol Sklenicka did a fantastic job. It should have won the National Book Award.

From my Goodreads review:

Carol interviewed me for this book. She was friendly, understanding, and compassionate. I still carry grief about Ray, about his early death, and about other incidents from our friendship. I was braced for the release of this book. When it came out, Carol's accomplishment stunned me. The historical facts are there as I knew them, but there are many additional revelatory details illuminating Ray's struggles. His faults are not avoided, but they can now be better understood in the context of his life. Carol's writing is urgent and clear. I love this book and reviewing it now, after some needed time and distance, is still emotional. I remain grateful for Carol's work.

I highly recommend this wonderful biography of a writer who often hid his pain from others and never stopped attending to his craft. This book is required reading for every aspiring writer.

MUSIC: "Sally Go 'Round The Roses" - The Jaynetts

Sally Goes Round The Roses is a haunting one-hit-wonder that captures perfectly the moment when AM pop went darker in 1963. This was played non-stop by KJoy in 1963-1964. It is a classic sound of Stockton.

Jay Farrar and Son Volt

NOW: In any town in the San Joaquin Valley of California you will hear live music in bars and at weddings where even the covers sound different. The influences are in the air: from the hard Bakersfield Country Music of Merle Haggard and Buck Owens to Spanish music, soul music, folk, and blues guitar-based rock.

There are also recording artists like Pavement that formed in Stockton, California, in 1989. I will also review their amazing career in another newsletter and other indie bands from the San Joaquin including one of the best-sounding live bands you never heard of: Buckwheat.

In the last few years, it has been the songwriting of Jay Farrar with his band Son Volt that sounds like the valley to me. Their albums American Central Dust, Honky Tonk, Union, and Electro Melodier are transporting. Call their sound Americana, but to me, their music feels like the San Joaquin now.


"Charade" written by Peter Stone and directed by Stanley Donen

THEN: Charade - a screenwriter's favorite - streams on Amazon and stars Hepburn and Grant. Unlike many classic romantic thrillers, this one holds up. It could have been darker, but Stanley Donen directed with a comedic touch.

Hepburn's focus on landing Grant is a little much, but it was a nod to Grant's star power. If Hepburn wanted him, women in the audience would want him too, even if he is looking a little older in this one.

Screenwriters go to school on this movie. All the elements are there: drawing room mystery, romantic comedy, twist, gunplay, and happy ending. It works.

"Only Murders In The Building" created by Steve Martin and John Hoffman

NOW: I watched Only Murders in The Building on Hulu two episodes at a time. Steve Martin and John Hoffman created this comedy-mystery that parodies True Crime podcasts and stars Steve, Martin Short, and Selena Gomez along with formidable guest stars.

I found myself thinking about the mystery as I went about my day, and that never happens to me, trying to figure out who the killer was. The second season is in production now.


Artist, real estate entrepreneur, and networking master, Kevin McQuinn, describes how he built a web of friends to support his personal and business goals. Don't miss his simple suggestions on how to build a network. His success is a strong reminder to me that no one makes it alone.

CLICK here for the full interview on dandomench.com


A feature on the Northern California band BUCKWHEAT - one the best sounding original live bands of the 70's that should have made it big.

Buckwheat 1970

& an interview with the accomplished sculptor and visual artist LYNN DURYEA who chooses to give back to the community through her art and teaching. Click here to visit her website.

Lynn Duryea with her large ceramic sculptures. (Photo courtesy of the artist.)

That's it for now. Stay in touch. Spring is coming. Have a great month!

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